I f33 M24, and I was asking my boyfriend to marry me, but then he proposed to me instead of me to him. What do I do now?
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Hey everyone, first I wanna explain what happened then I will ask my question. <br><br>My (26M) and I (33F) been together for 7 years, we discussed marriage and kids multiple times. He knows how much I want to have kids before I'm 35, he was OK with it, I think. <br><br>Since our relationship has been great, I thought to surprise him with proposing to him. I didn't tell him because I wanted it to be a full surprise, so I only discussed some stuff like venue, dress, rings, photographer, and all other stuff with my parents and my sister. <br><br>I planned to propose to him in a fancy restaurant on my bday (Feb 27th) so I could make it less suspicious. He was a lot into the details, and I didn't know if he knew because my sister accidentally posted stuff on her ig stories, and we all thought she deleted it before he could see it, turns out he did see it, and here we are. <br><br>On my bday he took me to the fancy restaurant I was gonna take him to and proposed to me with the exact ring I chose (he remembered the name of the store) in front of my family and all the stuff, it was a really beautiful proposal and I was so shocked I literally cried, and said yes.<br><br>Now to my question: since I was the one who initiated the planning, did he think I was taking too much burden by planning? Planning is something I enjoy, and I don't look at it as a burden or anything like that, so I don't know what to feel, should I feel bad? or I should just enjoy the moment? He said he did it because he wanted to give me the moment I wanted but I'm not sure if he was being honest or he just wanted to make the proposal more intimate and less stressful (I know him for 7 years but I can't really read him sometimes).
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