My ex wife was cheating on me, and her current husband thinks they’ve been together for the last 10 years

Update! She seems to have made some changes to her facebook page. All the photos of us together are now private, and she’s deleted most of her recent posts. Well done, Karen. You guys are so stupid. <br><br>Apparently she’s facebook friends with my aunt and my cousin, and she’s still friends with my old work mates. Hmm. I think the game’s afoot, and I believe I can confirm the cheating thing. I’m sorry, guys, I can’t get screenshots yet, but my aunt was comment number 1 on the first public photo of Karen and her new hubby. Third comment was Karen’s old neighbour. It was all the old crew. <br><br>Her old neighbour, whom I’ll be calling the old crow, is one of those nosey freaks who’s into everyone’s business, and she’s posted a bunch of stuff about Karen’s marriage - including the fact that Karen and her new husband got married in Vegas (They were originally planning to save up for a beach wedding) then went to Italy. Hmm. I wonder if she’ll pretend they’re newlyweds after years of domestic bliss? I wonder if she’ll ever come clean about it, or if she’ll ever be caught out on the lie?<br><br>Gross. Just gross. I could’ve been kinder and spoken to her about my feelings, and we could’ve had the conversation about divorce and broken up kindly. Instead I decided there was no point and walked out. I’m not a monster. But fuck you Karen, you fucking bitch.<br><br>EDIT! Karen’s facebook friends with my mother. Definitely getting the screenshots out tonight, just in case she decides to change her permissions. Do I think Karen is going to see herself mentioned here? No. I had been using a burner account for the last 18 months when facebook suddenly started logging me out and asking for a genuine account. I decided there was no point keeping a burner when my real account was fine. I’ll change my facebook name and maybe email and phone number and revisit in a year or so if I ever care about this place again. Until then, Karen can just live in real life shame and not know that people are making fun of her behind her back and that people know she cheated. <br><br>Original Post<br><br>A few months after we got married, Karen and I moved to a different city for my job, and we lived there without realising the importance of building up an old boys network. I made friends with some of my neighbours, but none of my workmates. <br><br>Karen was friends with some of them, but not all. She was friends with some of the guys at the bar she worked at, and the people at the pub where she used to go drinking. I think the guys at the bar were mostly into each other, but one of them was into her. She was a woman of loose and liberal virtue, so I’m sure something would’ve happened eventually. <br><br>Eventually, I got a new job back in my hometown and we moved back in with my parents. She was pregnant and I didn’t want to work and have a baby, and in the end she lost the baby and turned out to be the one who wanted to keep on working and for me to stay at home. It was around that time that the marriage started to collapse. <br><br>She had an affair, and left me. I’m not a big fan of talking about it, but I’m not so sensitive that I bat it away when people bring it up. It happens. I had an affair too, with a great woman who’s hopefully going to be my wife. We’re happy together, and I’ve moved on. <br><br>Karen’s attracted a new man, and they seem happy and in love. He’s quite a bit older than her, and he seems to be a great catch. He’s partnered in his business, selling insurance to people who aren’t big enough to get big insurance deals. After years of working his way up in the ranks, I’m sure he’s on great money. <br><br>Me? I still earn a pittance. I’m a manager now, but I’ll never be the high flyer my ex wife is. I wonder if she ever thinks about me when she’s living her best life. <br><br>What’s important here is that Karen and I got married in 2016, and I moved out in 2019. We were married for 3 years, and the divorce was finalised about 6 months after I left. Her new husband appears to be facebook friends with some of her facebook friends, and I’m sure he’s facebook friends with her. He seems to be convinced that they’ve been together since then, which is weird, because they’ve definitely been together for longer. I’m not sure if Karen has told him, but I’m sure he must be curious about why their relationship has been so magical and special for the last decade. I’m sure someone must’ve asked him how they met, and he must have been given the wrong answers. <br><br>I’m not bitter about it, or angry, but I do wonder what the fuck is going on in her head? Does she tell herself we were never really married? That we were always cheating and we never really loved each other? Did she think of herself as a cheater when we were married? Does she ever feel guilty about it? <br><br>I’m not going to message Karen, or post in the comments on her husband’s photos, and I’m not going to tell her the game’s afoot, Sherlock. But I’m curious about what Karen’s told her husband about us. I’m curious about what Karen tells herself about us. I’m curious about what happens when he finds out.