how do i stop seeing my husband as my best friend?
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Hi, im a 38 year old woman and this is my first post in this sub. i've been married for 6 years but have known my husband for 18 years. he's 38 now. since we met 18 years ago he's been my absolute best friend. he was my twin. my person. my partner in crime. my sounding board. my soul mate. we did everything together. we share a love and obsession for rock and roll, heavy metal, video games, horror movies, rock climbing... you name it. we actually met at a rock and roll band practice where i was the singer and he was the drummer, and then later we switched instruments, i learned to drum and he started to sing. <br><br>our relationship, as unconventional as it may sound, has always been super strong and happy. we have tons of fun together. we are very good friends. we make each other laugh. <br><br>the problem i've been having is that ever since we got married (and i know this may sound weird) but i've realized that i see my husband more as my best friend than my romantic partner. we dont have a romantic relationship. we have a great friendship. i dont feel that spark anymore. we've been together for 24 years so maybe that's to be expected. i dont know. i just want to feel that spark again. i want to feel like i'm in a romantic relationship again. i want to feel that magic. <br><br>i've talked about this with my husband and he's totally open to do things to recreate that magic. we just dont know where to start. we're both super busy with work, family, and life in general so we dont have much time for anything. <br><br>any ideas? tips? thanks
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