Why do people hate incels so much?

I’ve been called an incel and a loser for a while now by people I’ve known for years. Recently I’ve realised I am an incel. I don’t know why I was in denial. I’m not angry about being an incel, it’s just a realisation. I’ve accepted it. I’ve got no problems with anyone else and I don’t want to fight anyone about it.<br><br>I am a 19 year old guy, I get along fine with everyone. I am quite overweight at the moment, I’m working on it.<br><br>I have shoulder length hair, a beard, good teeth, I shower everyday and use mouthwash. I am quite tall. But I am overweight. I can’t make it in the dating world. <br><br>I’ve come to this sub for support. Yet I get messages and comments on my other socials of people being upset that I’m identifying as an incel. I just want to feel accepted, not shamed. This is a very hard pill to swallow.