Do men and women use a different definition of average?

One of my friends told me that when a woman says she wants an average man, she means a minimum 6 ft, 190 lbs, with maybe a six pack, and her definition of "average" is so high because there are so many overweight men that overweight men are the true "average." She then told me that men don't use this definition of average.<br><br>Is this true?