My wife keeps making mistakes at her job that cost her her job.

My wife is a great person and is very intelligent, she is quite smart but she is not the most diligent person when it comes to being punctual or paying attention to details. <br><br>She has a job working at a office where she works in HR and my wife takes her job very seriously. She will work extra hours and work from home just to keep up with work and make sure she doesn't forget anything. She puts a lot of importance on her job and will literally just sit at home and just work, work, work. <br><br>The problem is no matter how hard she tries she just can't keep up with her work so she needs overtime to do it. She makes a lot of mistakes that are so easily avoidable she will work 80+ hour work weeks and still not have everything done. She is so busy doing one thing she forgets about the other things she is responsible for doing. <br><br>I am quite certain she has a mental disability that makes it difficult for her to do her job, but she refuses to get diagnosed or see a therapist. She instead tries to power through her problems and it usually backfires. <br><br>She is now looking for a new job because she was just let go from her job because she made soo many mistakes and they just couldn't rely on her to do her job anymore. She is starting to gain weight because all she does is sit at home and work, eat and sleep. I have asked her to take a day off and go for a walk just to get some fresh air. <br><br>I am not sure what to do, I have tried getting her to see a therapist but she won't go. She doesn't like the idea of being diagnosed with a mental disability and wants to just try harder to do her job.