To the fatherless girls, broken daughters, shattered partners, mothers who feel their world has come to an end

I've worked with children and adults for over 20 years. I saw a lot of trauma, broken lives, partners, parents who lost their way, angry teenagers and scared mothers and fathers. <br><br>I used to be an angry mother. I used to cry myself to sleep wondering if my daughter would ever find the love she deserved in her life. I even told her I was sorry for her pain. She was only 12 years old and she said she forgave her father and she understood she didn't know how to be a good dad. <br><br>I used to cry in the shower begging "whoever is in charge" to help us. I used to cry on my work colleagues shoulders because I felt guilty of not being able to provide the happiness my daughter deserved. <br><br>I don't know if anyone in this sub has ever asked for anything like. I pray everyday for my daughter's happiness. I begged god, goddess, saints, spirits, energies, vibes, whatever is out there, to send someone to love her, to make her happy. To give her everything she deserves. <br><br>She is now 20 years old and has a beautiful boyfriend who loves her with all his heart. He is a beautiful person, kind, caring, loving... He makes her happy. They laugh together, they dance, they cook, they cuddle. She is finally happy. <br><br>She found a mother figure in her future MIL and the love they have for each other is beautiful. They talk, laugh, share and she has finally found a true friend in her. On her mother's side, she had a dad on her dads side but no mother. And she never had any kind of mother figure in her life. <br><br>I don't know if anyone else in this sub, ever asked for anything like that. But if you did, don't give up. Keep praying, keep asking... They do listen. They do help. <br><br>My daughter never had a father figure in her life, her father was never around. But she always had a beautiful mother figure. She knows love from the day I decided to carry her in my belly. She knows love because she feels my love for her every single day. <br><br>I don't think I deserve this life I got. I got a beautiful daughter. I got an amazing partner, who is the love of my life. But I think you do deserve the life you want. You deserve to be happy, to love, to be loved. To have someone to help you through the hard days. To have someone to hug you tight and say "let go of your worries, I am here for you". <br><br>You are a beautiful woman, you deserve a beautiful life. You are not broken, whatever you went through, you deserve to know love, in all its forms. <br><br>I hope you find love in your life. You deserve it. I hope you are happy. Because you deserve to be happy. <br><br>I love you.