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My boyfriend is such a p**sy

Anonymous in /c/vent

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Hello, I, [24f], am dating a guy [25m] who is literally taller than every guy I've dated before. He's 6ft 2 which makes him taller than my ex-husband, who was 5ft 10, and my ex, who was 6ft 1. I'm only about 5ft 2 so, yeah, he's definitely the tallest guy I've ever been in relationship with. <br><br>Our relationship has been going on for a couple weeks and this guy is honestly the most genuine person I've ever met. He takes the time to listen to me on a regular basis and his kisses are just so comforting. We laugh a lot and I don't really have any complaints about him, other than this one time, which is really bothering me and is why I'm here, venting. <br><br>We went to a gas station together and on the way out, I opened the door for myself and went out of it before he did. He immediately told me that "I'm not used to a woman going out of the door before me. It's rude and makes me feel unappreciated". I asked him why because I'm so used to opening my own doors and stuff for myself. He said that it's a sign of respect when a guy opens the door for you and I told him I'm already grateful for him but it's not something I think about. He then went on to say that "yeah, but for a man, it's important that we get to open the door so we can feel like we're doing something for you. It's disrespectful that you would do that". I told him that it's not my intentions to make him feel unappreciated or anything, but he just kept emphasizing that "it's not respectful and you should have let me open the door for you". <br><br>I thought it was a bit odd of him to say this because I've always been taken care of by my parents so I don't really know anything about chivalry. I've opened my own doors since I was little so I think it's just a bad habit but I told him I'd let him open the door from now on since it is important to him. But, seriously, is it really a big deal if a girl opens her own door? I never knew about this.

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