My(30M) wife(33F) is considering a man who abuses her as the father for her baby. How do I talk to her about this?

My wife is in a 6 month relationship with a man. It's an online relationship. Things have been bad. From what I've seen he's emotionally abusive. He's talked down to her, he's after money from her, and he's used his spirituality to spiritually abuse her.<br><br>I've been trying to talk to her. And she's not ready to listen. It's hard to explain but this isn't the first time she's been spiritually abused. Her grandmother was spiritually abusive to her. I've noticed patterns in our relationship that are similar to the abuse she went through. And I'm starting to believe that maybe he is gaslighting her. He said he's an empath.<br><br>It started last year when she went to a spiritual church here. I think they were into the law of attraction stuff. Yes they said all sorts of things about how she was spiritually awake. I do not know what they believe or what their practices are. What I do know is they've also tried to spiritually abuse my wife in ways that are very similar to her grandmother. They've also said spiritually abusive things like she made him mad spiritually.<br><br>She wants to have a baby with him. She says she is faking him out to get pregnant with him. I do not know if she is lying or not. I do not know if she wants to have his child or not.<br><br>I want to talk to her. But after her reaction the other day to me simply mentioning that he's abusive spiritually, I'm not sure if I can talk to her. How do I talk to her?