Apparently Women don’t like the “Nice Guy” because?

So I have been reading a ton of the posts on this sub and finding it really interesting.<br><br>As a 35 year old man, I thought Women liked a guy that was nice and did nice things for them. I am finding out the answer is NO!<br><br>Apparently Women don’t like a guy that: <br><br>-She can easily talk to because he is confident/calmed/etc<br>-Listens to her and supports her<br>-Is nice to others<br>-Gets them flowers or a gift<br>-Does nice things for them<br>-Being genuinely kind to them<br>-If he pays the bill for them<br>-If he opens the car door for them<br>-Does nice gestures<br>-Being genuine<br>-Does small gestures to make her smile<br>-Don’t mind if he can’t do something and can accept not being able to do something<br>-Can cook and clean and help out<br>-Being able to be themselves<br>-If he’s genuinely kind?<br>-If he’s genuinely considerate towards a woman<br>-If he’s genuinely caring for a woman<br>-He is genuinely thoughtful<br>-He is genuinely giving<br>-He is genuinely genuine<br>-He’s a gentleman?<br>-He’s not afraid to do the things that he does<br>-He’s not afraid to talk to her or show her that he cares.?<br>-He is respectful?<br>-He goes out of his way for them<br>-Hes not afraid to take matters into his own hands and make decisions<br>-He’s the opposite of a asshole<br>-Being kind to them<br>-He will go the extra mile to make them smile or laugh<br>-Being sweet towards them<br>-He’s not a jerk<br>-He goes out of his way for them<br>-He brags on them<br><br>I had no idea or any clue that all these things were turn offs. I thought most of these things were turn ones. This really makes me wonder what women are looking for now. So someone should enlighten me.