Husband (40m) has started using "guy" voice to me (38f).

My husband and I have been together for 20 years. We still get along amazing, love each other to death, and have a great time in and out of the bedroom.<br><br>He's always been sweet and gentle with me. Treated me like porcelain, essentially. While we have always been close, I've always felt like he's still kind of put me on a pedestal. I've always thought this is somewhat a generational thing. (I'm 38 and he's 40, he's old fashion in a few ways)<br><br>Lately, though, he talks to me way more rough and casual. He still isn't mean or anything, but he uses way more curse words and is more dismissive when he's talking to me.<br><br>For example, yesterday I asked him if he wanted to watch a movie with me, and he said "nah I'm good" without even looking away from his video game. This is a big change from him because normally he would have stood up, made sure I was okay, and then went back to what he was doing.<br><br>I'm not mad at the change. I'm honestly kind of happy? It's always been something that bugged me that he treated me so differently. I feel way closer to him now that he talks to me like one of the guys.<br><br>But I feel like there has to be a reason why he's started talking to me like this. And a few of my friends have suggested that he's being more authentic with me now, and that means he was hiding something from me.<br><br>But my gut is telling me he's just more comfortable with our relationship, and that's why he's being more casual. (Sorry, I realize this is a dumb question but I'm just looking for some insight)