Husband told me to not attend his family’s Thanksgiving dinner.

My (26F) husband (27M) always tells me that his family doesn’t like me. I was raised by a single mother, I don’t know what it is like to have a father. So I always grew up trying to do everything right, that way if I ever got married I would have a perfect marriage and a happy husband. <br><br>I do everything for my husband. He told me to quit my job and I did, now I do everything for him in the house and manage our finances. I even give him a weekly allowance so he doesn’t have to ask me for money. I do all the cooking, I even do his laundry and change his sheets, and pick up after him. He told me I’m the love of his life and I’m everything to him. He doesn’t like being touched so I respect that and I don’t show him affection. He doesn’t show me attention but I’m okay with that. <br><br>For Thanksgiving he invited his family over to our house but then he changed his mind and said we will be going to his sister’s house. He told me to not go and said he doesn’t want his family seeing me. He said it would be very embarrassing for him and it ruins his reputation to have them see me. I asked how? He just said I don’t want them to see you.<br><br>Is there something wrong with me? I have gained weight and my appearance has changed. I don’t want to ruin his reputation.