How do you feel about a guy who keeps telling you he’s not in a place to be in a relationship, but still flirts with you?
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I met a guy on a dating site. We struck up a conversation and it went really well. I like him. But his first question was if I was looking for a relationship. I told him I was. He told me he wasn’t in a place to date. I understood and told him I wasn’t looking for a fling. He asked me if I decided I wanted to be friends if I would let him know. I was self conscious for a moment and thought he was being polite because he wasn’t into me, but then he flirted with me and said he thinks we would be great together and then repeated he wasnt looking for a relationship. <br><br>I didn’t think much of it except that maybe he was still interested and he just wanted to keep his options open. Then I got a text from him asking how I was and we had another great conversation. He was really into it and then towards the end of the conversation he repeated that he still wasn’t looking to date. Then a couple of days later he texted me twice asking for pictures of me. He flirted with me again and told me he wished I was looking for a fling because I was really hot and then repeated he still wasnt looking for a relationship. <br><br>I don’t know if I should take him up on his offer. I really don’t think any guy who is interested in me has ever pursued me so hard while expressing he wanted to be with me. <br><br>I told him i would think about it but idk if I should.<br><br>What do you think?
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