Any of you guys ever think of a woman you dated in the past and wonder, “what if”

I know we’re all supposed to be this super self sufficient group of men who don’t need or want women in our lives. That women are nothing but trouble and we’re better off without them. I’ve read countless posts of guys talking shit on their ex’s, saying how they dodged a bullet and they were better off without them. I don’t really feel that way personally. Don’t get me wrong there are certainly times when the women in my life were a lot of work, but. I always wonder if things would have worked out. I’ve dated a lot of women and a lot of times I think back and wonder what it would be like if things had worked out.