1) UPDATE 2) If you have a roomba do not throw it away

So this is my first time posting here, but I found a need to do so after reading through some of the comments on my last post and I need some Chambers relationship advice.<br><br>So this post is actually in 2 parts, part 1 is an update on my previous post, and part 2 is my actual question.<br><br>part 1)<br>So, thank you for all of the comments, it was really helpful hearing all of your stories. After hearing some of the stories I decided that I was going to approach her and the splitsies idea seemed like the best way to go. Unfortunately she was not happy with that idea and we are going to have to go to court. We have been together for almost 9 years and most of our stuff is fromTarget and Walmart so we know it isn't going to be much. I was thinking about how we can still live together in the same house until we find out what is what. Before I could say anything she told me that she would just stay in the bedroom and she didn't need to leave. Well this isn't ideal, but it was better than moving so we did agree to that. And she hasn't left. We have a shared Apple ID for our iCloud account so I have location services on and I see her going to the park everyday and spending time with some other guy. Its been hard to deal with all of the changes from this past week. <br><br>So now on to part 2. I haven't told anyone about what is going on, not even my family. I'm not trying to hide it, I just haven't had a chance to talk about it. I was going to tell my mom about it yesterday when I was at her house, but she had something on her mind that she wanted to talk about first. She told me that she and my dad are getting a divorce. They have been together for almost 20 years, I know they had some problems, but I never thought that they would get a divorce. They told me that they have been having problems since before the start of COVID and they both thought it would work out once things went back to normal, but that hasn't happened. She told me that the splitsies method would be best and that they were starting to split things up before they told anyone. She left yesterday to go stay with her sister and my dad stayed at the house.<br><br>The problem I have is that she told me that I need to start going through the house and splitsies anything that I want. That way I can decide what I want to do with it when it comes time for me to figure it out. My problem is that I am in the exact same situation as my parents. I need to splitsies my stuff with my soon to be ex-wife, and I don't know where I will be going after everything is settled. My mom told me that she doesn't want anything to happen to me or my stuff so I should splitsies from their stuff now and keep it at our house. And my dad told me the same. He said he doesn't want my moms sisters family to have any of my stuff so I should splitsies now before they try to take it. They both told me that they don't want me to worry about where I will put anything, that they will just sell it and put the money away for me. They told me that they will even buy me another one of whatever it is that we decide to splitsies. They also told me that if I need help going through all of the splitsies that I can hire someone to do it for me. They told me that they know that it is a lot to handle and I shouldn't feel bad asking for help.<br><br>So this is my dilemma, I don't know if I should hire help for all of the splitsies that I have to do. That is literally my only worry right now. My mom told me that I should because I have a lot going on and I shouldn't feel bad asking for help, but my dad told me that it is a waste of money and I don't need it. I need Chambers relationship advice, do I hire help for all of the splitsies that I have to do?<br><br>****EDIT****<br>I know that I probably didn't word this post correctly, hearing everyone's stories helped me decide what to do about my wife. This post was asking for advice about my parents situation. <br><br>****EDIT**** 2<br>Quick update. I decided to go through everything. My parents are keeping all of their stuff at their house and letting me keep all of my stuff there. That way I can still have all of my stuff but I don't have to worry about where to put it. I tried going through all of it last night but fell asleep after about an hour. Its not easy trying to splitsies everything. I found a lot of roosters so it made it a little bit easier than it would have been otherwise.