I [40m] literally just found out that my brother [41m] has been perving on my wife [39f] for years and I don't know what to do right now.

I literally don't even know where to begin. I am livid and I am hurt. My wife is hurt and my brother is crying and begging for me not to tell my parents. I am almost remorseful I posted this because now that I am typing I am beginning to feel I should handle this without reddit. I am not sure but I will continue. <br><br>I have always trusted my brother with my wife. He is the one person I trusted more than anyone. My wife and him have always gotten along. So there has never been an issue with them. Never. <br><br>1. House structure. So my house is pretty big. Four bedroom. Three baths. My brother sleeps in one of the rooms. My wife and I have the master. Then there is two more rooms. <br><br>2. I always am working out. Last week, I decided to buy a mirror for the garage. So I have been setting it up for almost a week now. I spend a lot of time working out because I am the operations manager for a big company and I am already 40 so I don't have much time to do it during lunch. I am married to my high school sweetheart and we just want to focus on travel for the last couple of years of our 40's. I could sell my company but I have 100 plus employees and I need to find a CEO I trust. I am considering selling in 2 years though. Anyways, I was putting the mirror together yesterday. It's one of those that comes in 200 pieces kinda bullshit. So I am doing it little by little. I spent most of yesterday setting up the stand. The mirror doesn't come with the stand so I had to buy one. So I was moving the goddamn thing around the entire garage to find the perfect spot and I decided to put it up against this weird wall in the corner of the garage facing the door so I can watch the door while working out. It's a good view.<br><br>3. Well I was putting the actual mirror together today. It comes in pieces. So I am putting it together and with each piece, I am putting it up on the stand. Literally just putting the pieces together to test it out and see how it works. <br><br>So literally as I was testing it out. I noticed the mirror faced the door and I can see behind the door. It's a huge ass mirror. 9ft tall and 6ft wide. So it gives me a great view. So we have a door that connects the garage to the house. Obviously every house has that. So as I am testing it out, I notice I can see into the actual house. Hardly anything though. Just the floor slightly. Then as I was testing more, I noticed I can see the hallway when the door is open. The hallway connects to all the rooms. So if the door is open, I can see a little into each room depending on the door being open or closed. So I decided to test out further by walking into the house and seeing where I could see from the garage with the mirror. So as I walked to my bedroom, I noticed I could see anything in the main part of my room but if someone was changing, I could see their feet. Same with my brother's room. I could see their feet. I could however fully see my wife getting changed since her closet is in the main part of the room and it's to the right and the mirror reflects almost straight across the hallway. Against all of my better judgement, I tested out the other two rooms and I could see their feet as well. I literally indicaed ANNOYED by this point. I spent almost 4 hours testing this stupid ass mirror and i felt like I was wasting my time but I had to finish it.<br><br>As I was looking at the mirror and how it worked, I remembered that my wife was getting changed after work yesterday and she walked by the garage but she didn't see me since I was behind the car. I walked to the garage door connecting to the house and looked to my right. I could see my wife's waist and half her nude legs. I felt annoyed again but at this point, I thought "well fuck it. I don't care. It was pure accident". <br><br>So, I was looking at the mirror again and I remembered my brother was getting changed and he walked by the garage but he didn't see me either since I was behind the car. So I walk to the garage door connecting to the house and looked to my left this time since his room is on the left of the hallway. I could see his waist and half his nude legs or what looks to be his dick but I didn't pay much attention since this was expected and he is an accident and he is my brother. <br><br>I_then remembered as I was testing the mirror that when my wife walked by the garage, she didn't see me but my brother did. He walked by the garage and looked at me and smiled and said "what the fuck bro. You literally hid behind the car on purpose". Then I realized he was standing next to my wife as she walked by the garage. I thought to myself "no. He wouldn't do that". <br><br>So I go to my security cameras. I literally keep 5 year old footage. I saw him standing next to my wife as she walked by the garage working out and the camerazoomed in on her as she walked by the garage door connecting to the house. I literally saw her nude waist and legs. She literally walks by the garage almost everytime after work and I realized that the only time my brother works out in the garage is when she is. I literally am crying as I type this but I continued to look at every instance my wife walks by the garage. The camera doesn't zoom in everytime but it doeszoom in almost everytime my brother is working out when my wife walks by the garage. I continued to look at more footage and I found footage of him laying on the floor looking into the garage door connecting to the house. He is literally laying on the floor looking into the garage. <br><br>I confronted him immediately after looking at the footage. He said he is sorry and that it was an accident. He literally looks me dead in the eye and says he didn't see anything. I asked him how many times does he need to lay on the fucking floor before he realizes it's not an accident especially when he looks me dead in the eye and tells me he didn't see anything. I asked him to leave but he is crying at my feet literally begging me to forgive him and not to tell our parents. I don't know what to do. I Literalty do not know what to do. That mirror literally changed my life. I do not want to involve my parents. I just want to get him out and move on with my life. I want to forget this ever happened and never mention it to my parents. The problem is my wife. I told her everything and she is livid. I am too. I just literally don't know what to do. Do I take this to my parents? Do I just tell them to stay away for a year?<br><br>What do I do. I am literally just lost right now.<br><br>I just don't understand how someone I trusted could do this. I just don't understand.