Don't apply the term "hateful" to people who want to see less of this shit

I have seen men do this with girls before, showing them all the things they love about them, praising them and giving them compliment after compliment. "You are so beautiful, OR you are so smart."<br><br>"But you will never be my girlfriend OR you will never be my wife."<br><br>It's both pathetic and manipulative.<br><br>I see you OR people doing the same thing, apply the term "hateful" to people who don't want to see anime faces or anime tits, and pretend you are being nice to them but all you are doing is reinforcing this toxic behavior.<br><br>You are not being "nice" or "not hateful", you are continuing to reinforce the stereotype and make it more apparent that catgirls are just kinda "meh" in the grand scheme.<br><br>I don't really see the point in doing this, people are gonna like what they like. But I just wanted to call this out because I don't really like it when people pretend to be something they are not.<br><br>This is actually really dumb and this post isn't something I would usually write. But I guess it's all OR all the time.