[Update] My (24M) girlfriend (28F) thinks I got her pregnant from a-hole licking

Throwaway account, can’t post this on my main account<br><br>First of all, thank you everyone for the comments. It’s still the night now and she’s still asleep, I got overwhelmed by all the messages. I’ll put together a list and make my move later today.<br><br>First of all, some extra details:<br><br>I don’t get paid for giving oral, and she doesn’t give oral. Only one example of her giving oral was when she was out of town (our first time we were away from our home) and she was letting me get her pregnant, but she wanted oral too. I gave her one that night, but not for the rest of the trip.<br><br>I’m a 24 yo software developer, she’s a single mother and I guess you could call her a stay at home mom since she doesn’t work outside the home. She barely has any laptop based work. I work 8 hours a day, 100% remote. I only see her outside work if I’m taking her to a doctor appointment or if I’m picking her up from the airport. She stays at home with the kids. She’s out of town visiting her family every 2-3mo.<br><br>We’ve been together for over 6mo and I’ve only had the pleasure of her mouth twice. Once that example from above, and the other time was when we first started dating. I went down on her, and she said “oh you’re good at that, don’t worry about it”. So I literally only got one bj from her in the six mo I’ve known her, and it was only once. I only gave her oral because I was trying to impress her. In hindsight, I shouldn’t have done it.<br><br>As for the “we only have sex when she wants to”. We have sex when she’s in town, but it’s definitely not whenever I want. I will go weeks or months without seeing her, and during those times I’m just left alone. I’m not picky, I literally only want to see her, and during those times I don’t know what’s going through her mind. These are example the times when I have meetings outside the home, and I hope she’s there waiting for me once I get home. But nope, if she goes out of town, then no sex until she’s back. And if we do have sex, it’s still whenever she wants.<br><br>When we do have sex, I don’t have control over what we do. I don’t get to pick the position, or anything. It’s literally “get behind me and give me an orgasm”. I’m a 6’4” 230lb guy with a chiseled jaw line, ripped muscles, and a 6-pack. I’m not bragging, I literally got this body because I work out for an hour every day.<br><br>I guess what I’m trying to say is that I’m not picky. She knows I’m obsessed with her, and she knows I can’t see myself without her. So for her, it’s all about the money. She takes advantage of my kindness and makes me pay for everything, and will often only go for the most expensive choice at a restaurant. These are literally the things I hope to change about her, I do love her, but I can’t see myself dating a gold digger forever.<br><br>But anyway, now that it’s morning, I told her she owes me a BJ for the pregnancy scare. She said “go ahead and make yourself horny and then come back to me and I’ll suck you”. This only pissed me off more so I said “I only gave you oral because I was trying to impress you, and you still didn’t give me the respect of a BJ,” then I left the house.<br><br>I’m currently at a coffee shop and literally imagining myself in a new relationship with someone else. I do love my current girlfriend, but she really doesn’t give me the respect I deserve. I’m still thinking about what I’m going to say to her when I’m done imagining. I’ll keep you all posted.<br><br>Thanks for the help, Reddit.