I read through r/redpill and r/askteenboys and I feel..... sad

I'm genuinely so sad that I'm crying. I never really delved into r/redpill before and r/askteenboys but I was going through r/menwtf and I had a swipe through the comments and 2 of the comments were from r/redpill and r/askteenboys. I decided to read through the 2 threads and it was just so rude and hurtful. Like I'm not gonna lie, I had a tear drop halfway through reading. <br><br>I'm sad because I just can't understand why they are like this. I fell for a guy who is a huge asshole and he made me feel like shit because he was like the guys in r/redpill and r/askteenboys. I thought after being with him and seeing the light that all men would be like this. But after hanging out with 3 guys and getting to know them and seeing how genuinely kind and caring they are, I realised that not all men are like this. I feel bad saying that I thought all men were like this because I wouldn't want to paint a whole entire group of people with the same brush, I just wish I could have seen this sooner. <br><br>I'm sad because I think it's just the whole mentality of r/redpill and r/askteenboys because it's just so childish and pathetic. Like they're always talking about vibecentinels because they're childish too, but they're also so childish too. And it's just sad. <br><br>I'm sad because I wish more men would be nice and caring because they don't deserve to feel like this. They're human too and they deserve to be treated like human beings. <br><br>I'm sad because I feel like the r/redpill and r/askteenboys mentality is just getting worse and worse. Like I read one post from r/askteenboys where it was about a guy who was a really good friend to one of the girls and she wanted to know why he was like this because he was acting like a vibe centinels. And it's just so sad. Like the comments were all "he's a vibe centinels, he's a loser and I would never want to be a loser" and it's just..... like I can't even. Like I'm a black girl and although racism isn't as bad as it was back in the day, it's still bad. Like people don't know what it's like to wake up everyday and face the constant amount of racism and bullying and harassment and stereotypes we have to go through. At the end of the day we're all human beings and we don't deserve to be treated like this. Like why are you calling someone a loser because they're trying to be nice and caring? Like what the fuck is wrong with you?? I'm genuinely so confused.