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What would you say to a girl or woman if you had to persuade her to go on a date with you?

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I recently met this girl, we only exchanged numbers, she didn't seem that interested. What would you say to make her agree to let you go out on a date with you.<br><br>I'd probably start by saying, apologize, I just wanted to talk to you since I hadn't had a chance to yet. Now that we both have each other's numbers, I just want to let you know a little bit about me first. I'm, ***insert number*** years old ***male***, my first ***initial*** if you want to look me up. We met at ***insert location***. Right now you are probably wondering what this has to do with anything. Well the reason I'm giving you this information is just so you can be sure I am who I'm claiming to be.<br><br>Next, I want to talk about me. Now you would probably think it makes sense to tell you all the good things about me and why you should go on a date with me. I'm not going to do that because the truth is I'm not perfect. I have flaws like everybody else. I want to tell you about why you shouldn't go on a date with me.<br><br>I'll start with the positives first, these are the reasons why you should go on a date with me, but they'll be the reasons why it will be bad for you in the end. First, I'm a gentleman. I will always be polite and courteous, especially on the first few dates. I'll make sure that I'm considerate of you and your needs. Be warned, this will likely continue even after we're together for a while.<br><br>Next, I am a hopeless romantic and a dreamer. I love the idea of finding someone that I can be together with happily for the rest of my life. I am very idealistic about finding this person and staying together for the longest time possible.<br><br>I'm kind, caring, compassionate and empathetic. I can easily put myself in other people's shoes and will always try to help out those in need, even if it requires personal sacrifice on my part. I am the kind of person that will take a bullet for a complete stranger or someone I care about. <br><br>I'm a very loyal and dedicated person. If you give me something important to take care of you can be sure it will be safe with me. I will not let you down. Not ever.<br><br>I'm not rich or wealthy. I don't have a lot of money. But I'm financially stable. I earn enough to take care of myself and live comfortably, but I don't earn a lot. But I'm frugal and I know how to manage my finances.<br><br>The next part is where things get really bad. This is why you shouldn't go on a date with me.<br><br>First, I am a gentleman. Which means that I will expect the same level of courtesy and respect in return, even on the first date. I expect to be treated politely, even if you don't want to go on a second date. I expect to be treated with kindness and compassion.<br><br>I am a hopeless romantic. Which means that once I fall in love with you I will fall deeply in love with you. I will love you will all my heart and soul for all eternity. I will want to spend as much time with you as possible. I will smother you with affection. I will love you so much that you will likely feel uncomfortable.<br><br>I'm kind, caring, compassionate and empathetic. Especially to you, and especially on our first date together. I will want to make sure you feel safe and comfortable the entire time. I will do my best to make you feel like a princess. But I will also expect the same treatment from you. I expect to be treated like a king.<br><br>Finally, I am loyal and dedicated. Which means that if you decide to date me and we get into a relationship together, I will be with you for as long as possible. I will stand by you through thick and thin. I will stand by you through the good and the bad. I will stand by you even when the world is against us. I will be your rock, your safe haven. I will be the person you can rely on. I will be your partner, your best friend, your confidant, your soulmate, your everything.<br><br>That's what I am, and that's what I have to offer. If you're willing to take the risk, to put yourself out there, to take a chance on me or if you're ready for that kind of relationship together then we can go on a date together. But if you're not ready for a serious relationship or if you only want to play games or if you're not ready for what I have to offer, then it's better if we don't go on a date together.<br><br>That's what I would say.

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