For those of us who struggle to land a job how do you deal with it with dignity? How do you set boundaries for yourself? How do you deal with the mental health aspect of it all?

I am very logical and pragmatic in terms of viewing life and I realize that the job market is hard for people who have no prior experience. Sometimes though I question if I am even cut out for coding. Do other people struggle with this? I am struggling a lot to find a job, and all the job postings say one thing but change their minds once you don’t have a lot of experience. Winds up being very frustrating. Any tips would be great.