I’m tired of people having this weird vibe where they’re just like “ahhh I’m so lonely” but they’re not doing anything about it
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I’m tired of people having this weird vibe where they’re just like “ahhh I’m so lonely” but they’re not doing anything about it. I’m just so tired of people doing that. <br><br>You’re lonely? Do something about it. Join a sports team. Volunteer. Find a job in a field you love. You’re missing out on relationships, you’re missing out on opportunities, you’re missing out on so much if you’re lonely. I understand if you’re lonely and you don’t have a job, but there’s literally so many things that you can do. I’m not talking about only going out to bars or clubs, I’m talking about getting involved in your community, meeting new people, exploring new places, going to concerts or festivals or shows. You can join clubs or communities or join some kind of group. <br><br>I’m a huge fan of improv, so I’m just going to use this as an example. You can join an improv group. Or, you can join an improv class. That way, you have something to look forward to every week, you get to meet new people, and you’re not just sitting at home. <br><br>You can also learn how to play an instrument. You can join a band or join a class. You can volunteer. You can do anything. There are so many things that you can do, you just have to go do them. <br><br>I’m tired of people complaining about being lonely but doing nothing about it. And I’m not talking about mentally ill people, I’m talking about people who have no reason why they’re lonely. I’m tired of people just saying “oh, I’m so lonely I’m so lonely I’m so lonely” but they’re not doing anything about it. <br><br>You know what feels bad? You know what feels worse? Being lonely and doing nothing about it.
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