My wife and I are going to adopt a child. I’m worried about the possibility of inbred attraction

Tldr: I am trying to decide if to adopt a child or not because I’m worried about inbred attraction. <br><br>We’ve tried to conceive for half a year and it didn’t work out. My wife (34) and I (37) don’t want artificial insemination but we do want a child. Since our family has been pressured from both sides for a grandchild we thought adopting a child is the only solution. <br><br>Our child would be a baby (maybe 1-2Y). We’re going to adopt an Asian child because we’re Chinese. It’s also a condition from my wife’s side, because one of my parents in law has been against “adopting a black bastard” as they put it. We have pretty much figured out who to adopt and we are getting a call tomorrow. <br><br>I am pretty excited for the new addition to the family but my mind is sidetracked about the attraction between child and parent. Namely, between me and my child. <br><br>I’ve noticed for some time now that if a person is pretty, my mind pretty quickly goes to the sexual aspect of attraction. I’m getting old and my sex drive is increasing. It’s crazy. I’ve been watching pornstar videos daily and I’m afraid I might be a sex addict. My wife says she doesn’t mind but I promised her we’d be strict about the porn use if we were going to adopt.<br><br>I’ve been researching incest pretty much every night (although I wouldn’t watch porn) and I’m getting afraid we might adopt a child I am attracted to. The thought alone is driving me nuts. I promised myself I’d be a good father and I feel like I am failing my child and wife already before the child is even here. I am pretty confident I can control myself but the thought of inbred attraction between me and my child is driving me nuts. <br><br>I am pretty confident that there will be attraction between my child and my wife’s side of the family (they’re generally pretty hot) but it’s my side of the family I’m worried about. <br><br>My mom is still pretty hot and I’m getting a little worried she’s a bit too pretty. My sisters are also very pretty for their age (41 and 35) and so is my niece and nephew. I am trying to connect the attraction between me and them but it is definitely there. I can admit my niece and nephew are very pretty. <br><br>I have been afraid of this pretty much forever. Back in school there was a girl who was adopted and I thought she was very pretty and I was worried that I would fall in love with my adopted child. It stuck with me for some reason. <br><br>I am seriously considering not adopting because of this. I am pretty confident attraction will show up if I don’t think about it and I am pretty sure I can’t stay away from porn. <br><br>What do you think? Is this possible? I think so. What should I do?