Strange contradiction

I live in Poland. As I'm sure many of you know, in our country there are 2 parties: Right (PiS, with a religious nutjob Kaczyński on the helm) and Left ( Platforma, with a Tusk as a head of the party). Right is, well, right, but they also are pro-family. They also have a program that pays a sum of money for a mom, which is a huge help for many families. They also have a program which gives a huge discount for a family with 2+ children. They also have a program which gives a little discount for a mom with even 1 child.<br><br>Left don't have any of this. They don't have a lot, aside from Tusk's promise that he'll help families by giving them a lot of money. <br><br>Right is also super homophobic and hateful, but they help families and pay huge sums to mothers, even with one child. Left hate homophobic and hateful people, but don't give money to families.<br><br>I have no kids, I don't want any. I even hate children. But I don't believe something can be a help if a country isn't hateful and homophobic. I don't want a country that pays a lot of money to families, but is hateful. I don't want a country that is a haven for LGBTQ people, but don't pay a lot of money to families. I want both, but it seems that it's either one or the other.