My wife [28F] said I'm [31M] "killing her libido" by asking about it.

This is very frustrating and my wife and I are having a massive argument. I'll try to be brief.<br><br>So my wife and I have scheduled sex every Sunday. Sigh. It's a thing, I feel very emasculated by it. I know she's not attracted to me. My insecurities aside, we have sex once a week.<br><br>We had sex last night and she asked if I felt satisfied. I said yes, I did. <br><br>She said "you always think about if you're satisfied and never ask about me."<br><br>I said "oh, was it not good? Did you cum?"<br><br>She said "I'm not going to answer that. Every time we have sex, you ask if I cummed. Every time. That says a lot about the kind of man you are and it's killing my libido."<br><br>I'm floored. I don't know what to say. I don't know how asking about her pleasure hurts her libido. I feel like I'm just proving her point but I'm so confused.<br><br>&#x200B;<br><br>Edit- The " scheduled sex every Sunday" thing was at her request. I'm not the person who asked for it.