My husband almost kidnapped me

I am still trying to wrap my head around the fact that my husband of 8 years almost kidnapped me over 30 years ago. Please bear with me as it is a bit confusing. <br><br>My husband and I both met in high school and I always felt like there was something familiar about him. However, he is not from my city, but rather a neighboring city. We have been married for 8 years and still going strong. I have tried showing him pictures of myself and asking if he remembers me but he doesn’t. <br><br>I have always been a bit of a worrier and to this day, I still sometimes think about what would happen if a certain situation were to arise: kidnapper, intruder, etc. I always felt like I needed to be prepared and know what I would do if faced with a situation.<br><br>I talked to my husband about an incident that happened to me when I was 13. I was waiting for the school bus and a man approached me and asked me if I wanted to drive in his car with him instead of waiting for the bus. I told him no and he continued to ask me. The bus finally showed up and I got on and looked back and saw the man staring at me from his car.<br><br>My husband told me he had a weird feeling and was going to pull out a map from when he was 13 to show me where he lived. To both of our surprise, he lived right down the street from where the incident happened to me. He also told me that when he was 13, he and his friends would target other neighborhoods and try to get young girls to get into their car with them. He said their goal was to get a girl in the car to take her to a secluded place. He said he never ended up bringing a girl to a secluded place, but his friends did.<br><br>I asked him what they would do with the girls and he said they would sometimes bring them back home and other times, his friends would take them to a park or wooded area and he would leave with them. He said his friends would do things like touch them inappropriately and sometimes take their pants off. I asked if they ever raped them and he said he didn’t think so. I then asked if they ever took pictures and he said yes. He said they would take Polaroid pictures and keep them.<br><br>I asked my husband if he remembered anything distinguishing about the girl in the bus stop story I told him and he said no. I then asked if he remembered anything about the houses and again said no. I told him that the corner house had a big tree with branches sticking out towards the street. He thought for a second and then told me that he remembered the tree and how they used to park in front of that house. I asked if he remembered the house next to the corner house and he didn’t. I told him that was my house and the incident happened right across the street from his parking spot. I then reminded him of the distinguishing features of my house and he remembered them.<br><br>I understand that my husband was only 13 and hanging out with the wrong crowd, but I can’t seem to get past the fact that he used to target young girls and take them to secluded places. He said he never took a girl to a secluded place, but I have a hard time believing that. We are still together and I love him but am having a hard time trusting him. Does anyone have any advice on how I can get past this?<br><br>TLDR: My husband and I were talking about an incident that happened to me when I was 13. A man tried to get me to get into his car. My husband then remembered when he was 13, he and his friends would try to get young girls to get into their car. When he pulled out a map, we realized their stalking ground was where the man tried to abduct me. He then remembered hiding in front of my house and the tree on the corner.