Some relationship advice from a woman

I'll be brief and I offer no solutions. <br><br>I'm a 31 year old woman, I have a close friend who just told me she's going to get a divorce after 15 years of marriage. Before she was was due to file the paperwork she wanted to give her husband one last chance...So she did and of course he cheated on her. <br><br>She has 3 children and now she wants to get a divorce.<br><br>This has left me thinking about men and relationships in general. <br><br>The reason why I bring this up is that my brother has been single for 5 years now. He's a good looking guy and I'm sure he'd get married if he could. The problem is he's not that confident due to his lack of success with women. <br><br>So, the problem that I see is that men are not taking relationship advice from women. <br><br>I can understand why this is the case. <br><br>But yesterday I saw a tiktok video where a woman was giving dancing advice to men and the men in the comments were making fun of her. And all I could think was how they should listen to what she had to say. <br><br>The problem is women don't want to talk about relationships. <br><br>My head is going to explode if I see one more video of a woman talking about the lack of "good men"...My head is going to explode if I see one more video of relationship coaches and women talking about what women want in a relationship...My head is going to explode if I see one more video of women talking about why you should bring a nice relationship coach to a date with you...My head is going to explode if I see one more video of women talking about how there's no single men left due to the lack of "good men around". <br><br>Most women can't even understand themselves...So, your average woman is not a good person to talk to about relationships.<br><br>I've been talking to guys on dating apps and all I can think is how most of them lack any dating or relationship skills at all. <br><br>The reason why this is the case is that dating and relationship skills are taught by parents and then by dancing and singing teachers. <br><br>My dancing teacher taught me everything I need to know in order to find a good husband. <br><br>Most men are clueless when it comes to women. <br><br>The problem with polygamy is that I would be in a relationship with a person who has no idea how to treat a woman. <br><br>I have to say that I've always been attracted to American men...But now I see so many videos of relationship coaches and dating coaches due to the fact that they lack any relationship skills. <br><br>I understand why women don't want to talk about relationships due to the fact that men will just attack them for their opinions. <br><br>But I'll be quick. <br><br>Marriage is for confident people...No one wants to be married to someone who is in a crisis. <br><br>I've had a relationship with a man who had relationship trauma and it was a disaster. <br><br>Men think that women don't need confidence. I've been married for 11 years and my husband tells me everyday that he loves me and how beautiful I am. I give him attention and I always tell him how handsome he is. <br><br>If you're a man who is confident and you're having trouble dating then maybe you should change your look and or your behavior. <br><br>If you're a man who is insecure and dancing is your passion then you should join a dancing club and learn how to dancing from a woman. <br><br>I've always wanted to be in a relationship with a man who can dance. <br><br>I've had a few relationships with men who could dance and it was always so much fun. <br><br>I've had a few relationships with men who couldn't dance at all and it was a huge turn off for me. <br><br>The dancing is not just about the dancing. <br><br>Dancing is about body awareness and how to use your body to communicate...Dancing is about social skills and how to use your body to talk...Dancing is about your presence and how you move through space...Dancing is about your relationship with your body and how to connect with someone else...Dancing is about the way you walk and the way you use your eyes...Dancing is about your dancing partner and how to connect with each other. <br><br>I've been dancing for years and I know how to speak with my body and how to connect with someone else...<br><br>If I want to talk and share my feelings then I will talk to a woman. <br><br>I've had a few relationships with men who couldn't dance and all I could think was that I don't want to be in a relationship with someone who has no idea how to use their body and no idea how to connect with someone else. <br><br>If you want to date a woman then you need to dancing.