I used my magic to summon 1k followers on IG, my magic works, but can I use it to influence other people’s behaviour?

I’ve used magic to successfully manifest different desires, ideas, 1k followers on IG, etc, but can I use it to influence other people’s behaviors to get what I want? <br><br>Example: I’ve been ghosted by two guys already and I’m trying to get them to talk to me again, but I don’t know if it is ethical to use magic to influence other people’s ‘free will.’<br><br>So I’ve tried to find a third party way around ‘mind control’ spells and I’ve come up with this exercise:<br><br>Say out loud, ‘Gods, grant me (some thing you want) so ‘My name’ can (achieve something of value to me).’ <br><br>I’ve tried it for a while, and I still ‘feel’ a ‘block’ when I do it. Any suggestions and tips would be great help!