If you get a ton of individual messages here but none of them ever go anywhere, it's because we're all just excited chubby men :/

I've been on this sub for ages, I get a ton of individual messages, I engage with every single one of them...almost none ever go anywhere. I know this is a pretty male dominated sub and I'm sure we're just all excited to be talking to a real live woman, but none of us know what we're doing.<br><br>There's a post on here that gets a ton of upvotes about how men should just talk to us like normal women and stop fetishizing us. I completely understand where this is coming from because being fetishized can be gross, but this is one of those cases where women just have it way, way worse than we do. I know I've been pretty brutally direct in the past and it just doesn't go anywhere because I don't know what I'm doing.<br><br>If you want to go on a date with me, just say so.<br><br>If you want to go to bed with me, just say so.<br><br>I get that there's a whole power dynamic thing, but sometimes, as a man, it feels like you're just being strung along when you try to get to know a woman.