I want to stop blocking my cervix.

Every month my husband and i use condoms, i then take a pill that makes my uterus slough. Why bother with both if i am on bc? It’s because he has googlephobia so i have to google for him. I also have a hard time remembering to take my pill every day so the condom is to be sure. We have never had a pregnancy scare and i don’t want one. Our primary method is the pill then condoms. <br><br>I want to stop my period. I don’t want to get pregnant. I also don’t want to be less fertile. I want my period to stop blocking my cervix as much as possible. I have been to 2 obgyns that both want me to go on the depo shot. I don’t want to go on the depo shot. I want to stop my period without the shot. I don’t want to get an iud. I don’t want my husband touching my cervix during sex because it feels like he is going to break it sometimes. I don’t want to be in pain. I just want to live my life without having to constantly take my pill, stop my period altogether, and not be less fertile. <br><br>I don’t know where else to turn because my primary Doctor just said i need to go to my obgyn. I am sick of being told what i have to do when i don’t want to do it. I want a solution that doesn’t make me infertile and doesn’t give me excruciating cramps.<br><br>Any help would be great.