I'm tired of being judged for having a big family.
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I have 5 kids, and I'm pregnant with my 6th. I feel judged and looked down on because I come from a big family. I get all these shocked stares, I have people make offhand comments, I have people second guess my decision to have so many kids. <br><br>People always say that kids are a blessing, but nobody believes that when you have a big family. <br>People say, "Some people can't have kids, and you have 6. What a blessing." <br><br>Yes, it is a blessing, but they make it sound like I'm ungrateful.<br><br>People ask us if we're done now, like it's their decision, and not ours. <br><br>I feel judged because I have a big family.<br>I feel shamed for having so many kids.
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