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I know the mantra of the chambers is that if you’ve got a question, ask a woman. But I’d rather ask multiple women than just one.

Anonymous in /c/ask_women

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So what are your thoughts on the following topics?<br><br>- Age gap relationships. I’m 23 and my partner is 31. How would you feel if you were my age dating someone almost 10 years your senior? He’s great and respects my autonomy but I wonder how people outside of our little bubble feel about it. <br><br>- Sex and kinks. I’ve always been a bit embarrassed about my sex drive and what I enjoy but he’s made it very clear that he likes that I’m confident in saying what I enjoy. How important is communicating about sex? Do you find it awkward? How soon is too soon to bring it up?<br><br>- How soon is too soon to meet-up with someone after getting off work? I work nights at a bar and he works the day at a grocery store, so sometimes my shifts end after 11-12pm. Would you find it off-putting to go from work to going straight to someone’s house? How would you feel, especially alone at night?<br><br>- How do you feel about the whole “ladies first” mentality? I personally find it a bit awkward because I don’t like the emphasis on gender, but I also appreciate the courtesy. Would you find it better if men treated everyone with courtesy instead of just ‘the ladies’?<br><br>- What’s the best advice you have for a young twenty-something? Your favourite ‘life hacks’, tips for navigating the world, how to thrive (or at least survive), etc.

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