Girls don’t want to find a new man. They want to get rid of their current one.

Girls don’t want to find a new man. They want to get rid of their current one.<br><br>This is v important. Most conventional relationship advice operates under the idea that girls are searching. This is half true. They are searching but that is only half the picture. They are currently in a relationship with a man they don’t want to be with.<br><br>They want to leave their current relationship and enter a new one. Why do girls cheat? They cheat because they have decided to get rid of their current man. So what do they do? They up their dating game (get dolled up, hit the gym, go into stores to meet potential dating prospects, etc). They start looking for a new man.<br><br>They start going to vices and put on full display the best version of themselves. This is what causes girls to cheat. They find a “better” man and then they leave their current one.<br><br>What is a “better” man? A “better” vantage point is not objective. It is not about being better than the other man. It’s about being the best “better” man than her current one. Girls constantly has a yardstick in the back of their head to compare other men to their current man. They constantly consider who’s better. You don’t necessarily have to be ‘better’ than the other guy.. you just have to be the most “better” than him in her eyes. She wants the best man possible which is why she constantly is comparing prospects. This is why girls always have a ‘type’ so they can compare prospects to their current man.<br><br>Why is this important? Most dudes think they are competing with other men. It’s not that. You are competing against her current man. You are gonna be compared to him. This is why it’s so important to be the best version of yourself. This is why girls love hot guys.<br><br>Girls don’t go to the gym to get abs so they can get a better body. They get a better body to get a better man. They want to find a better man who is currently better than her current one. They want to “level up” their man.<br><br>Girls don’t want to find a new man. They want to get rid of their current one.