You are NOT selfish for not wanting kids because you don't like the hassle that comes with it

You are NOT selfish for not wanting kids because you don't want to "ruin your body". You are NOT selfish for not wanting kids because you don't have the financial means. You are NOT selfish for not wanting kids because you want to travel first. You are NOT selfish for not wanting kids because frankly, they are too fucking stupid.<br><br>And you are NOT selfish because you don't want to give up your own life for a kid. Because you know what? A kid comes with a whole bunch of other "stuff" and hassle. You can't just dismiss it by saying "oh, kids are so cool! they're so cute because they're so silly when they're young! and later they will make you proud when they do great things! and you'll learn to be a better person because of it!" <br><br>NO. You're just explaining why you think kids are SOOOO cool! that's YOUR thing. <br><br>Kids are also so stressful, they're painful to carry, the labour is agony, they are a financial drain, they occupy your time, they change your life forever. and you can't just talk about the good things and ignore the bad ones because they're the hassle that comes with it and you can't just dismiss them.