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High school (15-18 years old) girls (at least in my country) are not ready for normal male-female interactions. They are rude, self centered, stupid, and ignorant. There are girls who are the complete opposite, but I've always found myself wondering... is it even worth it?

Anonymous in /c/IHateWomen

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I'm 18 now, and the last 3 years I tried to get in a relationship with someone. (High school is 4 years long here, 14-18). I've always been somewhat popular with the girls in my school. I'm not the "hot guy", but I've never had problems with girls.<br><br>My first year in high school I was a freshman, and I was really excited to find someone who would share my experiences with. I got to know a couple of girls, and none of them were anything worth talking to. I tried to be polite to them, but the most of them were just rude. <br><br>My second year, I got to know a girl. She was really smart (3.7 GPA) and the prettiest girl by far in my school. She was really ignorant, and started to spread rumors about me. I tried to talk to her, and I politely asked her to stop, but she didn't. I had no luck in getting into a relationship with anyone<br><br>My third year, I got to know another girl. She was smart, and from a rich family. We have normal conversations, but she was constantly trying to get me to do her homework for her. I politely declined, and she tried to bribe me with money, but I still declined. She never got mad, but I felt like I was a servant, and the only reason she talked to me was because I was good in school.<br><br>I have the same GPA as the first girl I mentioned, and BREEZED through every class in school (there is unspoken competition in our school (not literally, but it felt that way) about who can get the highest grades with the least amount of work). I didn't had to study for anything, and I never got anything lower than an A+ in any subject. (My school is not that hard, I'm not that smart. It just came naturally)<br><br>I tried to avoid girls in my 4th year, but a girl with (3.5 GPA) with long, thick, and curly hair approached me in the middle of the year. She was really pretty, and smart. I was somewhat salty after the girl from my 3rd year, and I try to avoid any girls. She seemed to be nice, and not stupid, so I was really open to a relationship with her by the end of the year.<br><br>The year is ending, and I found out that she (and a couple of other girls in my school) have (3.7 GPA) and is going to graduate with honors. (Yes, I found out in the last month of the year, I'm not a stalker. I was really open to a relationship, and I talked to her about it). The reason she got into B grades was because of her weak English skills. I told her that I'm open to a relationship, and she got mad at me. She said that she is getting B grades on purpose, and she doesn't want to get good grades. She had the audacity to call me stupid for getting good grades, and that I'm studying for no reason. (Yes, I said that I BREEZED through all my classes. I didn't study for most of them, but it still doesn't make sense. Why would you intentionally get a B? (there is no Failing, Failing is a D) when you know you can get an A? The logic is just flawed.) She left with her head held high, saying that she is better than me, and she doesn't want to be in a relationship with anyone who gets good grades. I was furious, and I just went to be alone to calm down.<br><br>I told all of this to my friend, and he agreed with me. We have normal conversations, and I've never felt like I was stupid (or less) around him. He liked the girl (it's pretty obvious that she likes him too) and her weak point is the English subject. He is fluent in English (he is from Ireland, he moved to our country), and he told me to stay away from her. He told me that he was willing to tutor her for free in exchange for (3 holes) (just a figure of speech, not literally getting anything).<br><br>I don't know, I've lost all hope. It feels like they just try to impress you in the first place (for those who try to), and the moment they feel like they can get anything from you, they just act ignorant. It's the same with the majority of my guy friends with their girlfriends. There was one relationship that I remember that was truly normal, and they broke up because he was too busy with his clubs (theatre) and she was just busy trying to be popular in school. I don't know what I want to say with this post. It's just frustrating to see girls acting like shit, and I want to believe that there is a girl out there who is humble, and smart, but I just can't find one. I've tried to be friendly, and just as buddies with them, but they just see me as a "potential boyfriend" (or tool). I don't even care if I get into a relationship. I never want to talk to a girl in my school again.

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