I was in public and noticed a woman tearing up and crying in her car, I sat next to her in public and asked her “do you need to talk about anything?”

The tears continued and she smiled a little and said, “yeah thanks I just lost my job today” I offered her a pack of gum, and she took one and continued crying. I said, “well I’m not going to talk much but I think it’s good your venting, if you ever want to talk you can, I’m here for you, and I’ll always be here for you even if you don’t want to talk.” <br>I continued doing whatever it is I was doing and she continued crying, and then she had a smile and she sat next to me and started talking which was the beginning of our beautiful friendship.<br>Over the years we would talk more and more until she got married after high school in the late 1990s. I continued to visit her and she was always the one to open the door, and she always had a smile on her face, I think the individual she married was unaware of my past, and he had no problems with me visiting them.<br>Over the years as our friendship blossomed she would call me her brother, and I would call her my sister, she would say, “Yeah your my brother and there is no difference between us, your just like a brother, it doesn’t matter that your a man, your not like other men, your like me, and your always there for me.” <br>One night in the late 2000s I visited her and her husband had gone to bed and she had me sit on the couch and I fell asleep on one end and she fell asleep on the other end, and we both fell asleep in our clothes. The next morning I ran into her husband in the kitchen and he said, “I’m glad to meet you, your the only real man I know that will protect my wife like she is your own sister. You and her are good people, and I respect your blood brother like relationship with her, you don’t need to tell me anything else.” He went back to bed later that day when she got up and we went for a 4 mile walk in the woods and we discussed family problems, and we sat on the beach together to watch the sunset, and we had our normal brother sister relationship. <br>But over time the visits became more of a person she knew, and she was dedicating more of her time to individual natural relationships like friends, and I was more like family.<br>The last time I saw her was 4 years ago and she said, “I don’t want to talk about anything right now, but in the future, and I want to name you in my will as my brother, and I want you to be the guardian of my children if anything ever happens to us.” She trusted me to be the guardian of her children, just like if I was related.<br>I don’t know what the future will be like but I know that she is not the kind of person that will call you over for things like this. I think she believes she is susceptible to cancer, and I’m not sure if she is ill, or not, but just thinking about that made me feel sad, and I’m not sure if she is ill now, and I would be surprised if she is aware of me typing this.<br>I want to say that I have no clue how I ever was able to be this communicative with women, and I don’t know if I’m an exception, or not, but I want to say that I’m not a good looking communicative chad, who is individual exceptional in most things in life, but the majority of us have our own personal strengths and weaknesses. <br>I’m not good at dating, and I’m not good at partying, and I’m not good at making new friends, but some of us have been the loner type even as children, and we have had abilities to navigate problems that other people can’t navigate, and we have always had a different perspective on problems, and we always have a macabre or dark sense of humor, and we always have had abilities to navigate problems in our own communicative way, but we have always been more alone than anyone else. <br>She would always say that she is not the kind of person that will call you over to her house to sit next to her, and she wouldn’t let people in public hug her, and she wouldn’t let most people hug her kids, but I would give her kids hugs all of the time, and I would get hugs from them all of the time, and she would hug me in front of her husband and kids all of the time. <br>I don’t know when or if I ever see her again, but I know that she always has a special place in her heart for me, and I will always have a special place for her and her family in my heart, and if she ever needs me I will always be there for her and her children, and her grandchildren.<br>I don’t know if I will be around long enough to give hugs to her future grandchildren, but I have always tried to be dedicative to family and individual natural relationships like friends, and we both will always have a special place in our hearts for each other, and she will always be like family to me, and I will always be like family to her. <br>We have always been more than just friends, and we have always been more than just family, and the most important thing is we always have a special respect for each other the way we are, it doesn’t matter that I’m a man because I’m a dedicative blood brother like person to her, and she is the same for me, we have always been like 2 peas in a pod, and we always have been very communicative together to problems we both might have.