Does anyone else feel like women are trying to live out a bad fantasy on a unsuspecting man?

I had a friend who was a complete virgin until he was 19. I asked him how it felt to lose it to a girl he had spent a few months with. He revealed that it was a random hook up that lasted 2 months. In that 2 months she tried to do EVERYTHING. I don’t mean that it was a wild 2 months, I mean that she literally wanted to try every position on the kama sutra (which admittedly I wish I had more enthusiasm for), every fetish, every manipulation of a woman’s body, every conceivable manipulation of a man’s body.<br><br>A month later I had the same conversation with another buddy of mine except this time the girl that “deflowered him.” He literally was in tears at one point because it was so rough. He revealed that he was not allowed to touch her (no kissing, no touching her vagina, no rubbing her breasts or nipples) because “he was not worthy of her.” He said he was literally not allowed to cum, which he thought was no big deal because he assumed it was a manipulation tactic to make him last longer. The truth is, she wanted his balls to stay blue and to never have a break from it. He also said she kept a running tally of how long he was able to last and added 0.1-0.5 pounds of weights depending on the day. At the time he was starting to loose weight and he didn’t understand why.<br><br>This thread might be a little off topic, but why are so many women trying to live out a bad fantasy on unsuspecting men? I’m not upset or angry, but it just feels like so many people are trying to live out some idealized fantasy that seems to be more about revenge and hate than passion. I would be curious to know why.