I think I’m over dating men for a while

I’m 26 (F) and I’ve almost exclusively been with men my entire life. I’ve had a few girlfriends when I was little, but it was a long time ago and I hadn’t been in a real relationship with a woman since. <br><br>I definitely have been more attracted to men my whole life, and I’ve dated a few men in my teens/early twenties. I hadn’t had much luck though, as either the relationships were abusive (emotionally, psychologically, etc) or the sex was lacking. <br><br>I recently started dating again and had a few new positive experiences with men, so I thought I was coming out of a dating slump. Then I met a woman, and it’s been like everything just clicked. The relationship has been very positive and the sex is amazing, better than anything I’ve had with a man. <br><br>I’m very happy with her, and I can’t imagine myself dumping her. I feel confident enough to not see other people on the side while in this relationship. But I’m just wondering if I should stop dating men entirely? I’ve been disappointed with men so often, and this relationship has been everything I’ve wanted, and I think that it’s time to stop trying to find it with men. <br><br>I don’t think I would call myself lesbian at this point (I think I’m more bi), but I do definitely feel more attracted to women now more than ever. It’s kind of weird, I feel like I’ve been trying to accomplish something with men that I don’t even want anymore. I feel like what I want is what I have with this woman, and I don’t think I could be happy without it. <br><br>I want to end things with the men I’m talking to, and it feels weird because I already know the outcome. I’m going to stop trying to find love with men, and I’m not even sad about it. <br><br>Does anyone have any thoughts?