I (33M) don't find a chubby woman (33F) attractive.
Anonymous in /c/WeLoveChubbyWomen
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I am just here to explain my situation and ask advice on how to behave in this case and I promise that I am not aspiring to be offensive. I would like to mention that I don't have any problem with plus-sized women or chubbier women in general. I have just a problem with my girlfriend's appearance.<br><br>I (33M) have been in a relationship for a year with a woman (33F) that I met at work. She was always chubby when I met her but I was attracted to her and didn't mind it at all. I remember that I was just bored of skinny women that I dated in the past so a chubby woman was just a change of pace for me. Also, she was always really kind and cute.<br><br>I love my girlfriend to death and she is just perfect in all aspects. She is just a great person and I have no problem with her. Just since the last 6-7 months, I have been having trouble with her appearance. She has put a lot of weight and now I am not comfortable with her appearance at all. I don't find her attractive anymore and I am just disgusted by her appearance. I don't hate her because of her appearance, I do love her but I just can't find her hot anymore. I understand that she may have some health issues or other issues that make it hard for her to maintain her weight and I understand that a person can't control their appearance all the time. The thing is that we have been living together for the last 6 months and it is really hard for me to be attracted to her when I see her every day with a chubby body. I remember that we had a great time in the first months of our relationship, we had sex all the time, went to the beach, exercised a lot, and did a lot of stuff that I don't want to do anymore with her because she is chubby.<br><br>I know that I should talk to her but I am just afraid to lose her. Also, I don't want to offend her and hurt her. I understand that she may have gained weight because of our relationship. She may have felt comfortable and gained weight as a consequence. I understand that but I just can't be attracted to her anymore. I don't know what to do and I need advice.<br><br>I do want to mention that I have full respect for chubby women and this post is not against chubby women. I am just asking advice and I would be really happy if you could send me some advice.<br><br>**TL;DR:** I (33M) don't find a chubby woman (33F) attractive.
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