I want to break up with my girlfriend and my gf wants to break up with my wife, but my wife says that there is nothing wrong. What should I do?

I'm 35 years old, and I've been married to a woman for 5 years. We've been having problems lately, but we've been seeing a therapist.<br><br>My wife is 33 years old, and she's a strong, independent woman. She works out every day, and she's an excellent black belt. Sometimes I feel like she's trying to intimidate me when we argue.<br><br>Recently, we went to a party, and I got drunk. I made a mistake and kissed a woman who wasn't my wife. I was so drunk that I didn't even remember what happened, but my wife told me about it.<br><br>My wife was furious, but she calmed down after a while. She said that she wanted to break up with me, but I begged her not to. I told her that I was sorry and that it wouldn't happen again. She agreed to give me another chance, but only if I did what she said.<br><br>I agreed to her terms, but now I'm starting to think that I made a mistake. My wife is controlling, and she doesn't let me do anything that I want. She's always telling me what to do and how to behave. Sometimes I feel like she's trying to turn me into a robot who does whatever she says.<br><br>I feel trapped, and I don't know what to do.