It seems like most women who are genuinely “settle down and family” types are the ones who want to live in the moment and enjoy life/their youth before doing so. Why do people keep saying that this type of woman is rare?

There are plenty of women out there who want to settle down and have kids. They genuinely want that. But they also want to enjoy their youth and enjoy the present moment of their lives before doing so. Why do people keep saying this is rare? Its pretty common for women to genuinely want to settle down and have a family but they want to enjoy their youth and have a good time first. I genuinely dont understand why people keep saying this type of woman is rare when theyre actually not that rare.