My girlfriend [23f] of 18 months asked my [25m] preference about her pubic hair and now finds me "revolting".
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So we've been dating for 18 months. We've lived together for three months. <br><br>She's got short hair down there and trims it herself with scissors. One day a few weeks ago when she was getting ready to shower she asked me whether I prefer short and tidy or a more natural look. I thought it was a bit odd but just said I don't really have a preference and it's up to her. <br><br>She didn't respond much to that so I just thought she was busy with getting ready. <br><br>Fast forward a few days, maybe a week. I'm lying in bed on my phone, doing nothing in particular. She walks past me and out of nowhere says "you're disgusting". <br><br>I'm like "what?" And she's like "no nevermind". I'm like "what" so she says "I now think you're disgusting". <br><br>I'm lost. I ask her wtf she means but she just contractorily says "not" then walks out. <br><br>Then a few days later we're having sex and she keeps stopping me from going down on her. I ask her what's going on and she says it will feel better if she does it herself. I ask her why and she just says she can do it better than me. Last time she definitely didn't think this. I've always gone down on her during sex and she loves it. <br><br>Next day I ask her what's going on and she explodes at me. She's upset that I told her I didn't care what her pubic hair looks like, then a few days later I didn't want to go down on her because of it. <br><br>I had no idea what she was talking about. I told her she asked me to stop because she wanted to do it herself, and that my answer to the pubic hair thing was because she's always trimmed it and I didn't want her to feel I wanted her to change her routine. I said I think she has nice short hair but that I would also find a more natural look hot so long as she's happy and comfortable. She just laughs and says that I'm so immature and childish. <br><br>I'm going crazy. This is my first real serious relationship. I don't know what she means or what she wants.
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