The only problem I have with my boyfriend is that he uses the term "male privilege" ironically

I am so sick of it. I am just fed up with when he doesn't listen and then gets pissy and walks away with his hands spread and goes, "I'm not going to show you male privilege!" And I have to let him have the last word and he can just go and be a child in his room when I've had enough of him calling me a bitch and a slut and then telling me to go fuck myself. I don't know, am I the asshole if I hate my boyfriend?