Why do I need a person to watch my kid, cook for me, and do chores while I work?

It's 2023! We have dishwashers, microwaves, vacuum cleaners, and washing machines. We also have kfc and pizza hut. Why do I need a woman to watch my kid, cook my food, and do my chores while I work? What is the point of technology if a man can't even have a couple of hours a day to himself?<br><br>I'm not saying that women shouldn't work, but I can't accept that I need to work so a woman can go work. I don't need a second income! We're not poor.<br><br>I want my kid to have a mother figure. That's fine. I understand. But why does she need to work? I want my kid to grow up with a father figure too.