My husband has put on 65 pounds since having our baby. How can I tell him I don’t find him attractive anymore?

That’s pretty much it. I love him so much and he’s a great person but I am finding him so unattractive. We have a 10 month old baby and I thought he would be more concerned with losing his baby weight for us. <br><br>I’ve tried having a conversation about it but he says I need to love him for who he is. I do but I have lost my sex drive bc I don’t find him attractive.