My (23f) boyfriend (24m) has waifus and it’s destroying me

My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years. We are in a long distance relationship for the past 1 year and have planned to move in together at the end of this year. <br><br>He has always been open about having waifus and seeing them as a part of his life that he can’t change. I was more okay with it in the beginning as I felt more secure when I was with him. However, since we started long distance, I began feeling insecure and jealous about his waifus again.<br><br>He goes to sleep at 3 am and wakes up at 10 am every day and whenever he is home, he is on his PC playing games, doing art or watching streams. I feel like he is drifting away from me, especially with his new streamer waifu. I fear that he will never see me as his "waifu" and that I can’t satisfy his needs like his digital waifus do. I don't want to be his "real wife" at this point. He is not my husband and I don’t have any plans to marry him yet. However, I want to feel like his partner.<br><br>I have tried talking to him about it but he gets defensive and says that it is okay because he doesn't find me any less attractive. However, I have noticed that he doesn't find me attractive and is not turned on by me. I don't want to be in a relationship where I feel insecure and jealous all the time. I have no trust left for him and the situation is destroying me. Respectfully, can anyone give me any advice?<br><br>tl;dr My boyfriend has waifus and it's destroying me