Anyone else here ask their partner to gain weight? My wife is a slender 5’8 130 pounds but I need her to be around 150-160 to feel good about myself and our relationship. I hate myself for making her do this but I really don’t know what else to do.

So I asked my wife to gain weight. I know that this is a chamber for people who love chubby women but I don’t blame anyone for downvoting my post. <br><br>I know it’s asking a lot and I feel like an asshole for asking her. She’s a slender 5’8 130 pounds. She has no curves and her waist is too thin. I hate myself for asking her to gain weight but I really don’t know what else to do. <br><br>She has now agreed to do it but I don’t think she’s actually gonna do it. She says she’ll go to the gym but she skips most of the days. I know it’s not my place to ask her and I would never want her to sacrifice her health but she’s been so insecure about mine and I feel like this is the least I could do in return. <br><br>I don’t know how to help her gain weight and whether she should put on good or bad weight. I feel like eating junk food would help her gain weight quickly but that doesn’t seem healthy and I definitely don’t want to sacrifice her health for this. What should I do?