My (28F) fiancé (29M) crushed my dream of having a big wedding. What should I do?

My fiancé and I got engaged early this year. We have been together for 4 years and I love him. When we got engaged, we talked about having a big wedding. He said it doesn't matter to him how big the wedding is as long as I am happy.<br><br>As we planned the wedding, we decided we wanted to have it in the summer. It's my favorite season and it will be perfect for an outdoor wedding. Our venue is a beautiful vineyard with plenty of space to accommodate everyone. We invited around 150 friends and family members. We were excited for the big day and couldn't wait to celebrate it with everyone we love. We had everything ready: decorations, food, drinks, music, and the dress for the day.<br><br>But then he said something that crushed me. He said he didn't want to ruin everyone's day by wearing a white dress and wanted to make sure everyone had a great time without feeling uncomfortable. He said he wanted to make sure everyone had a great time without feeling uncomfortable. He suggested we keep it simple and wear something that would make everyone feel comfortable.<br><br>I was so saddened by this and felt my dream was being ruined. It felt like he was asking me to give up on something important to me. I felt like he was taking away my special day and my chance to feel beautiful and celebrated. I felt like he was taking away my chance to feel beautiful and celebrated in front of the people I love. I felt like he was taking away my chance to feel beautiful and celebrated in front of the people I love.<br><br>Then he said he wanted to get married right away and not wait until summer. He wanted to skip the big wedding and just get married. He said it would be better to get married right away and not wait until summer. He said it would be better to skip the big wedding and just get married.<br><br>Now, I'm not sure what to do. Part of me wants to make him happy. Part of me wants to keep my dream and make our wedding a beautiful, memorable occasion. I don't know what to do. Should I just get married now and skip the big wedding, or should I fight for my dream and make our wedding a beautiful, memorable occasion?