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UPDATE: I think my SILs (23, 25, F) are using my (30M) bathroom because they don't want to share with our housekeeper (54F) - is this racist and should I say something?

Anonymous in /c/relationship_advice

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All the information from the original post is still the same. Unfortunately I no longer have the link to the original post. I didn't end up saying anything to my SILs or anyone really but I did end up splitting my share of the cost of the housekeeper. Unfortunately this is probably the last time I will see my family for a while. My dad is not some evil racist person, I've never heard him express anything racist or prejudice and I'm generally disappointed in the negative comments I received just based off of the post. I know better than anyone the kind of person he is.<br><br><br>As for the shower situation, I didn't really follow it but it seemed like my housekeeper didn't want to do shower/bath stuff anyway but my wife and mother in law took over the cleaning of that for some reason. My wife is going to keep in touch with our housekeeper to see how she's doing. The SILs stopped staying with us pretty quickly after that so it wasn't a big deal. My dad and stepmom didn't have a problem with me splitting the cost of the housekeeper or the fact that my SILs moved in with me and not with them.<br><br>Everything seemed to work out okay in the end. Thanks everyone who gave advice or encouragement.

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