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I (28F) cant cope with my husbands (29M) short temper anymore, and idk what to do.

Anonymous in /c/relationship_advice

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EDIT 2 : Please stop making assumptions that you have no right to make. I didn't write this post to open the flood gates to every armchair psychiatrist and know it all on Reddit.<br><br>EDIT: Thanks everyone for your kind advice and comments ❤️. I'll be speaking with a therapist on Monday to see my options moving forward. Sending lots of love to everyone who shared their similar stories, and for all the helpful advice. <br><br>My husband and I have been together for 9 years. We have a 4 year old daughter and I'm currently 5 months pregnant with our second child, which is a boy.<br><br>My husband is amazing in a lot of ways, and I know he loves me and our family very much. But he has this explosive anger issue. And I just honestly cant take it anymore. The last time it happened was just over a week ago.<br><br>One of our friends was saying really really questionable things. I'm talking "men should be allowed to hit wives" and "women shouldn't be allowed outside of the house" etc. I was trying my hardest to steer the conversation away from this subject, my husband included, and he just snatched my arm and told me to be quiet. He didn't say anything to the friend, just me. I got really upset and I told him I was going for a walk because I was fuming. I didn't even get out the door before he grabbed me by my hair and punched me in the face, and I fell. He drugged me back into the house cursing at me, threw me in the bedroom and locked the door. He wouldn't let me out for hours. He took my phone and didn't give me food or water. Eventually he let me out and acted like none of it had happened when in reality it DID happen. He said it wouldn't happen again but it ALWAYS happens again. He did the same thing when I was pregnant with our daughter, and I really just dont know what to do anymore. I called my parents and asked them for advice and my dad told me to hang in there for our sons sake, and my mom said I should come home as soon as possible. <br><br>I just dont know what to do.

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